Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Flipper & Clapper & Sucker - Take your pick




These are the few actions he likes to do after milk... Trying to tire himself to sleep...
When he's tired, he'll grumble so I can flip him back flat so let him suckle to sleep before turning him gently on his tummy again.

While sucking his fingers, he managed to vomit some of his milk out... Luckily i put him on his cot. Otherwise, i'll have to change the bedsheets again!

My Flipper - Part 2




For my mom's amusement...

My Flipper




This video is dedicated to my mom... She heard my aunt saying her ganddaughter can clap her feet... My mom was envious.

So, mom, go ahead.. Have fun watching.

07.30.2008 Enjoying Life 1.MP4




This is Ryan's typical dessert treat after his milk... B4 he drift off to slp on his own.
He loves to chat with me while eating his dessert...

Ryan's Very Own Exersaucer




This leapfrog exersaucer was purchased by his Nainai on Monday... Toys r us is selling it @ $159.80
We managed to lug it all the way home together with all our takashimaya purchases... Phew, it's heavy.

I'm very glad he likes it so much... Now, i can leave him in it and go for a shower with no worries. :)

Swimming @ Jasmine's place




Because lunar 7th month is coming soon, my friends and I decided to have a swim just before it.

In the photos:
Ryan & Myself
Alethea - Jasmine's 2nd child
Jordan & Sandra

Camerawoman: Jasmine

Ryan was so tired that he fell aslp immediately after shower... In the cab, on the way home, he was so cranky as he wanted to slp. There was a huge jam as there was a traffic accident... So i took some pictures of him in order to distract him... Phew, it worked.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Tired of Helping

Just woke up in the morning, I checked my mobile for any messages or missed calls... I realised that my brother sent me an angry sms.
Just last sunday, I went to my brother's ex's blog. I saw something she wrote I felt was very unjustified to my brother. Therefore i decided to comment about it. I can't remember my exact words. But i went something like that "You did not spend the whole night with Joe. You had dinner with him and immediately went to meet your friends. How can you say you had dinner with Joe & reached home abt 3am? It's deceiving..."

My brother felt that I was too kaypo. So he deleted the comment. Fine.. Btw, I did apologise to him for being so kaypo... And I did promise I'll not comment in her blog ever again. I am still keeping my promise. He gave me permission to tag in his blog. So i did.

I wrote: "joe, i m pissed that you have wasted your 4 years on her... I think you deserve better. a proper girlfriend will understand if her boyfriend is in NS, no time for her. But you take the intiative to avoid nite duty just to spend the weekend with her... does she appreciate you? Why dwell on a girl who refuse to grow up?"

In the end what I received was an angry sms and a missed call from him.  I wanted to know what happened, therefore i went to read his ex's blog again... What greeted me was something that I never expect a proper girl like her will write...
Too crude to post... Does she have spilt personality? Anyway, I couldn't care less anymore...

Therefore I decided to wash my hands off his affairs... He approached me when he was feeling down, though I was busy with Ryan, I devoted my time listening to him pouring his woes... Why? Because he's my brother! Otherwise i'll give a heck about him.
Now simply because his ex is fuming about the above comments, he decided to shut me out?

Never mind, I've learnt my lesson... I'll not meddle in his affairs ever again... My brother seems to be smoking again... After promising us he'll quit... I did warn him way in advance that I am prejudiced against smokers... Family or not. It's for the sake of my Ryan....

Swimming Fun @ NSRCC




Today is my first swim. Mummy had to go for company event. Therefore Waigong & Waipo & Jiujiu brought me to NSRCC for some swimming fun...
Mummy sneaked out for an hour to join me in the pool before heading back to expo for the event.
Waigong went to his golf course before we even started swimming... So there was no pictures of me and waigong at all.
The sun was so strong.. I couldn't take nice pictures because i had to keep my eyes small to avoid the glare of the sun.

Mummy thinks i am afraid of the water. But it was the sun that spoilt most of my fun...

After swim, i needed milk immediately. So hungry!! I was poofed... Mummy was a harsh coach.. She made me float upwards, kick water, etc... I fell into deep sleep after my milk.

Waipo brought me to the aircon playground because mummy had to leave already. Toys r nice.. Hmm, maybe I should ask Daddy to buy me some when he comes home from BKK this friday.

Monday, July 28, 2008

Day Out with Paternal Grandma




I wrote a blog on waipo .. so i think it's only fair i post a picture blog for nainai as well.
Ryan speaks:" Daddy went to BKK for business trip. So NaiNai & Mummy decided to go shopping with me.
We went toys r us to get my very own leapfrog exersaucer and tried on the long admired Stokke pram...
I love the stokke... But daddy will faint if mummy buy it. So mummy decided to let me try it and leave a memento...

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Ryan on Exersaucer!




Rented this toy from http://www.rent-that-toy.com

He kinda enjoys it... Only for 15mins max. But i'm happy to see him enjoying himself...
Renting is better for me because I can offer Ryan new toys every month. Instead of blowing a bomb on my pocket to keep Ryan entertained...

Ryan on Bumbo Seat!




Rented this seat from http://www.rent-that-toy.com

His attention span on this seat lasted 5days... After that he started to struggle every time we put him in...

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Enjoying Life




This is my typical morning... Enjoying my thumb while watching tv... I've finally learnt how to stick out my thumb n sucking it instead of putting my whole fist into my mouth...

Day Out With Maternal Grandma




Today, mummy have to take exam - renewal of insurance license... Therefore grandma took leave to help babysit me for a while...

Monday, July 14, 2008

Emotions Run Wild

Last saturday, my mom & I went to plaza singapura to exchange a piece of diaper for a pack of huggies ultra.
Afterwhich we proceeded to attend a seminar held by AsiaHeath Partners @ Grand Plaza ParkRoyal Hotel near Cityhall MRT station.

Because Ryan was the only baby in midst a huge crowd of over 200 women from all race & age, everyone is trying to get a piece of Ryan.
Finally I decided to get out if the ballroom wif Ryan in the ERGO carrier.  I saw that there was a IPAS makeover counter outside the ballroom, so i thought while waiting for my mom, i can have a free makeover session.

Halfway through the session, Ryan started to grumble. At the same time, it was tea break time.  I passed Ryan to my mom while I carried on with the session.
Suddenly I realised that Ryan was no longer in my mom's arms in front of me!  He ended up in the arms of a total stranger! He was crying his lungs out... The sickening stranger was passing Ryan around like a doll!

I immediately stopped the session. But my mom & Ryan has disappeared! I went around hunting for my mom & Ryan.  I couldn't hear Ryan's voice anywhere! I started to cry and panic... I called my mom, she didn't answer my phone, in the end, after much searching, she finally called me... She went to the lobby to avoid all the baby-crazy aunties...

When I went downstairs, i saw that Ryan was crying and screaming away... I was damned pissed off with my mom for giving Ryan such a shock.
My mom told me, aiyah, let Ryan be more sociable mah...
Wah Piang! TOTAL STRANGER LEH!!! Shit! I scolded n scolded her...

I hugged Ryan, he cry, I cried along with him... I was so angry with myself for doing some stupid makeover...
I shouldn't leave Ryan alone with ANYBODY... Be it my mom or anyone else...

That night, Ryan had nightmares... Crying throughout the night in his sleep... I felt so apologetic towards Ryan...

I've decided from today onwards NEVER to leave Ryan out of my sight... I don't care if he's not gonna let others carry... Better safe then sorry. Afterall, he's my one n only.

Note: Dear Ryan, mummy is very sorry for putting you through this trauma. I promise never to allow anyone carry you w/o my permission...

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Information on introducing solids to infants...

This is for the benefit of all young mummies... My MIL has been nagging me on feeding Ryan wif semi-solids the minute Ryan turns 4mths... But as the nutritional sciences say, wait till ur infant is 6mths before trying anything...

How Will You Know When Your Baby is Ready to Eat Solid Foods?

How do you know if your baby is ready for solid foods?  Your baby may be 3 months old or 4 months old when you start to feel she may need "something more" than formula or breastmilk.  Maybe she is beginning to awaken more often at night or eat more often than "usual" and you wonder if introducing solid foods may be what she needs.

A Growth Spurt May be Confused with a Readiness for Solid Foods

Please keep in mind that a growth spurt will occur between 3-4 months of age. Your baby may begin to wake more frequently at night for a feeding and/or may begin to eat non-stop (cluster feed) as she once did as a newborn.  This growth spurt often accounts for the increased hunger in your baby and it should not be taken as a sign that your baby needs solid foods added to her diet!  

Offer your baby more frequent nursing sessions and/or bottle feedings instead of solids; you will find that within a week or two, your baby is oftentimes over the growth spurt and back to feeding "as usual".

Here are a few "signs" that may indicate your baby is ready for Solid Foods:

Loss of tongue-thrust reflex

ready for solids Ability to let you know she is full from a "meal" with signs such as turning away from the bottle or breast.  This is important so that baby is able to self-regulate the amount of food being eaten.  This helps stop baby from accidentally overeating as parents may continue to feed baby thinking that she is still hungry.  

ready for solids Ability to sit up and hold head up unassisted  

ready for solids Interest in your food (we tend to disagree with this one as when a baby reaches the age of 4-6 months, he is interested in putting everything in his mouth!)  

ready for solids Doubling of birth weight  

ready for solids Frequently waking in the middle of the night when a solid sleeping pattern had been established.  This may not be the best indicator that your baby is ready for solids! Please keep in mind that a growth spurt will occur between 3-4 months of age, 6-7 months of age and also 9-10 months of age.  Baby may also be waking due to an illness or teething.

My Friend's Baby Started Solids Early - Why Shouldn't My Baby?

Many parents say that their own pediatricians or their friends' pediatricians have said that it's fine to start solids (typically cereal) at 4 months of age.   It is still common for pediatricians to just say "start solid foods when your baby is 4 months old" because this has been the norm for many years.  You will find that the vast majority of pediatricians are not experts in pediatric nutrition and many are not aware of their own governing body's guidelines! 

The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) acknowledges that there are no "strict" age guidelines on introducing solid foods to your baby.  However, the AAP, along with the CDC and the WHO do recommend that you offer nothing but breast milk and/or formula until you baby is at least 6 months old. 

This ensures optimal nutritional exposure and may stave off food allergies amongst other issues.  Further studies have shown that an infant's gastrointestinal tract has not or may not have matured enough to properly digest/utilize solid foods until around 6-8 months old! (See page end for reference links)

Studies show that babies are highly individual in developing a readiness for solid foods.  One baby might seem to be ready for solids at 4 months, while another shows no signs of readiness until around 6 or 7 months.  Just because your friend's baby may have began eating solid foods at 4 months of age does not mean that your baby should. 

**Please keep in mind that "outward" signs of being ready for solids do not mean that your baby's inner digestive system is mature and ready!  You should thoroughly discuss starting your baby on solid foods with your baby's pediatrician.

If your pediatrician insists that you start your 4 month old infant on solids, ask him or her to explain the benefits of starting solids early.  You might be surprised to hear the answer is not based on nutritional science! 

And remember, you never HAVE to begin introducing complementary foods simply because your pediatrician has suggested that you do so!  Only when you have thoroughly discussed the pros and cons of introducing solid foods with your pediatrician will you be able to have a better grasp of just when you should begin offering baby solid foods.

Won't My Baby Sleep Through the Night If We Start Solids?

Some parents believe that if they start solids "early" then their infants will sleep through the night sooner.  As your baby grows, his sleeping patterns as well as eating patterns change continually. 

Around the time a few parents begin to offer solids early is just about the time that an infant may be sleeping for longer periods at a time.  This is a natural progression as an infant ages and it oftentimes coincides with the addition of early solids.  This coincidence perpetuates the dangerous myth that early offerings of solid foods will help an infant sleep "through the night".

To further this explanation, let us recall that between 6-8 months old, baby is often back to waking at night for a feeding.  By this time baby should be eating solids and it appears that those solids are no longer helping baby sleep through the night.  In reality, baby is hitting another growth spurt and may wake again during the night for more feedings regardless of eating solids! This really is "normal" and your baby may wake again during the night for more feedings regardless of eating solids!

The best advice when considering starting solid foods for your baby, "Watch the Baby - Not the Calendar!"  This is true for both breastfed and formula fed infants.

My Parent's Insist That My Baby Needs "Real Food".

Some parents may be tempted to give in to relatives, grandmothers and sometimes even their own mothers, who say "Give that baby some real food, she's starving!" or "Nursing that baby isn't enough to, he needs some real food". Remember that "real food" is breastmilk and/or formula and these contain all the important nutrients that an infant needs to develop properly!  Breast milk in particular, and/or formula, will be enough to sustain your baby's nutritional needs for up to age 1 year old!

http://www.wholesomebabyfood.com/readyforsolids.htm
thanks to ivy for giving me the website link...

Monday, July 7, 2008

Dangers of a Baby Walker - Chinese

http://www.kidsource.com/kidsource/content4/baby.walker.danger.html


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Dangers of a Baby Walker

Dangers of baby walkers

The danger of baby walkers can cause injuries including death. Find out why and how to prevent this from happening.

Though they have been used for generations by our mothers and even by women today, walkers are extremely dangerous for babies. In 1995, the American Academy of Pediatrics called for a ban on walkers due to the extremely high rate of injuries, major, minor and fatal which occurred from the use of walkers.

Seventy-five to eighty percent of the more severe injuries were caused by falling down the stairs. Walkers may keep babies happy, they may provide them with a means of mobility, but they do not keep them safe. When you baby is in a walker, he can move faster and farther than he ever could on his own and the potential for falls, pinches and other injuries is very high. Walkers do not help your children learn how to walk and in fact, have been found to delay walking for a few weeks and once the children did begin to walk, they presented an abnormal gait in the beginning.

It is very hard to find a walker in the stores these days, but they are still around. Most companies have stopped making them for fear of lawsuits and due to the proposed ban by the AAP. A new brand of walker-type devices has cropped up, these devices are of the same premise, but they are not on wheels and the only movement a baby can make in them is to turn around in a circle or bounce up and down.

These Exersaucer type toys are great for keeping your child in one place to play, especially when they have learned to crawl and you are trying to keep them out of trouble. They don’t, however, provide a means for mobility for your baby. Without using these devices too often, your baby may learn how to crawl faster and find his own means of mobility.

The risk of injury from walkers is too severe and before long they will probably be off the market altogether. You will still find walkers in consignment shops however, don’t buy them. Keep your baby safe from injury and death and he will learn to walk eventually, what’s the rush?

http://www.essortment.com/all/babywalkersdan_rvun.htm


The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) feels that walkers should be banned from the United States because:

  • baby walkers put children at risk for injury and
  • there are no clear benefits from using a baby walker.

From 1989 to 1993 there were 11 deaths involving a baby walker. Each year over 8000 children are treated in hospital emergency rooms for walker-related injuries. Many more children are injured and go to their health care provider's office. Walker injuries can be serious, such as skull fractures, head injuries causing bleeding inside the head, broken legs and arms, and burns.

FACT: Baby walkers do not help your baby to walk earlier. In fact, they often delay walking.

FACT: A baby in a walker can move at a speed of 3 feet per second. This is much faster than a baby can move on his own.

FACT: Gates do not prevent babies from tumbling down stairs in walkers. Children can take the gate down or the baby walker can knock the gate loose.

FACT: Baby walkers put children at increased risk for burns, poisonings, and drownings. This is because the child can move about faster and reach dangerous objects.

FACT: Most baby walker injuries happen while at least one parent is at home watching the child.

http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/pa/pa_walkers_hhg.htm

Fun Time @ Home




Testing out Ryan's reaction towards the baby chair...

Fun Time on Baby High Chair... Whee...




MIL devised a method to let Ryan sit on the baby chair... I don't think it's safe to leave him alone though. He's still too young...

Sunday, July 6, 2008

Ryan's 1st Month & 1 Day




Juz managed to dig out these pics that I thought i've misplaced...

Ryan's Baptism @ St Mary's of the Angels Church




My brother is Ryan's godpa.
The day is perfect... Except that I met a person I've not seen for 13 years... I was very surprised to see him at the baptism event. And also he's already a father of 2...
I've kinda buried this behind my brain. Now that I see him, I realised that I've already forgotten about him. But his wife don't seem too pleased about seeing me.
I don't think we've ever met...

2 Days before Ryan's Big Day!




Sunday is Ryan's baptism... We're testing out the camera for his baptism.. In case sudden breakdown of the camera...

Some Pictures taken on 14th & 15th June 2008




We're testing out daddy's new HTC Touch Diamond Hp...

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Day Out With Kathy




I went out with Ryan & Kathy on 18th June 2008. We initially intended to do lunch @ HV... But since Kathy msn me saying that there is a MNG sale gg on and she was driving, we decided to do lunch @ Shaw instead... Haha, two shopaholics...

We had lunch @ NYDC - Wheelock Place, then we proceeded to shaw centre - MNG sale.

I realised that there r lots maternity wear being sold there... Hmm, they brought it in as basic wear. So you gotta search really well in order to find the nursing/maternity wears...

Luckily Ryan was very cooperative. He slept in the ERGO all throughout the rampaging... Keke :)

Mummy ended up with a bagful of clothes...